so long, and thanks for all the gefilte fish
1 Comment Published by Lilit January 28th, 2010 in writing, transitions, workAfter fifteen months of being employed, unemployed, and back again at Jewcy, I’m moving on. The split was amicable - I wasn’t even looking for a new job, but I got recruited (hugely flattering) and I’m going to be launching a new women’s and lifestyle site for B5 Media. Anyway, after the long strange trip over at Jewcy, I managed to pull myself together long enough to write this goodbye post:
A twentieth-century Eastern European writer who survived a variety of wars, movements, and renamings once said that he’d lived in five countries without ever leaving his house. During the fifteen months that I’ve been the editor of Jewcy, I’ve lived in several countries while always remaining in the same house. When I first started as the Editor of Jewcy, it was a for-profit enterprise with six other employees and a beautiful loft office in DUMBO. The following February, the company’s initial investors pulled out of the venture, and my coworkers and I lost our jobs. In either the bravest or stupidest move I’ve ever made, I spent the next six months running the site myself out of my apartment, with no salary. Fortunately, JDub Records came along and adopted Jewcy - suddenly, I became part of the JDub staff. I can honestly say that, despite the fact that I am nowhere near cool enough to work at a record label, the JDub team always made me feel at home.
As much as it’s been weird to have the country of Jewcy changing around me, there’s one reason that I kept doing this job: because I believe in it. More specifically, I believe in Jewish journalism and the power it has to help people struggling to find a place within their faith and culture, as well as to encourage debate, discussion, and dissent from those already within it. I can’t urge you enough to stay involved with Jewcy and keep reading, as it’s only going to grow. I’m not at liberty to reveal all of the secrets, but I can tell you there is a beautiful, easy-to-use redesign in the works that will leave all the other Jewish blogs crying (sorry, other Jewish blogs). I plan to come back and blog whenever possible, because I believe in the unique, diverse, and open-minded Jewish community that Jewcy fosters. Jewcy’s traffic has gone up 12% since it was adopted by JDub in October, and I hope that you guys continue to hang out here and contribute to the ongoing conversation.
I spent most of my life growing up in a place where I thought I was beyond the reach of Jewish traditions and history, believing that someone from my background could never find a place within the Jewish establishment. But somebody gave this patrilineal-descent, non-Hebrew-speaking, non-bat-mitzvahed, still-figuring-it-out Jew from North Carolina a job editing a Jewish website, and for that I will always be grateful. I hope that I’ve been able to foster an environment where any person who identifies as Jewish can feel welcomed and encouraged. Whether I was writing about soap operas, The Kotel, Scientology, or my ex-boyfriends, I’ve always been proud of the fact that I was writing for Jewcy.
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my favorite books and movies of 2009
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- Beliefnet: Interview with Ryan Gosling I am 99 percent sure he flirted with me.
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